Personality:
The universe has turned me into the following: I am calm, caring, loving and understanding. I am fond of nature, animals and children. I am an open-minded and mature. I am honest and truthful unless being honest will hurt anyone. My id is ashajethani at hotmail.

In my free time, I enjoy the nature, reading and bird-watching. My interest in spirituality and alternative healing have brought me to India. Here, I have learnt to go with the flow - and enjoy what the universe and God gives me. I trust the universe will only give me the best and the hardships it gives me are for my learning and growth purpose.

I enjoy the company of almost all types of people mainly because I love to observe anyone and anything. I love to share and give to others. I believe in doing and giving unconditionally - I have faith that the universe will accurately return to me what I deserve, basically I believe in karma. I enjoy understanding relationships and reading about the complex human nature. I love listening to what others have to say and how they see things. I am accepting of people and their behaviour. I believe that everyone is conditioned to have a certain personality and a role to play on Earth and I respect that.

I am not beauty conscious and prefer my partner to be the same. But having said that, I have to see my partner, on the whole as an attractive person. I am extremely simple in my dressing, flat shoes, no make up. I have no idea what is in fashion, I wear what I feel suits me and is comfortable. I wouldn’t be a good choice for those who are looking for a modern or trendy girl who enjoys partying or socializing much. I am very homely, quiet and prefer light socializing mostly with family members or close friends. I love going for walks and excursions to quiet places such as mountains or rocky beaches. Those looking for a fair and beautiful girl, please abstain; not that I don’t see myself as beautiful, but I know this might fade one day and I don’t want to be conscious about my looks to attract or be loved by my partner for the rest of my life. I prefer to be loved unconditionally because that is what I have learned to do myself.

Education and Career:
I used to be ambitious and career orientated. My main intersest was always computer related. I managed to complete MCSE a few years back. I had gone to the UK for engg, but due to circumstances I could not complete the course. I am interested in various career options. I am okay both if am working or not. I have become very easy going with my education, career and job.

Partner Expectations:
There are no hardcore preferences about my life partner. But some important qualities are that of being non-critical, supportive, giving, caring and loving - not only towards me but towards everyone in general. We should love and enjoy each other's company. I guess that with love everything else, whether it is adjustment or support, comes naturally. We should be there for each other in both the good and the bad times (if there are any). I hope for someone with whom I can grow and see him grow as a person - we would grow together. I will get along with someone who is mature, simple, liberal, pride less and most importantly egoless or who has little ego. I have come to realise that the lesser our ego, we inherit more positive qualities and shed off the not so good ones. I will offer my partner and his family unconditional love, care and support.
I prefer to start off as friends and see how the relationship develops.

I have lived most of my life with my parents and brother, or else alone in India or the Uk. I love my family and tend to be protective about them.