My name is Jay and I’m married to Titiksha’s twin sister. I feel like this gives me a fair bit of credibility in describing her. She has given me the honor of writing her bio and I’ve promised her I wouldn’t use clichéd phrases like “fun loving, “ “down to earth” and “long walks on the beach” (even if these phrases might apply =).

Titiksha is a compassionate and understanding person. She is motivated and enjoys finding what life has to offer her. She likes to smile and to make others smile. She is fully capable of making logical decisions when necessary. However, she is very much an emotional person. She is nonjudgmental. Titiksha generally sees the good in people, which is quite the admirable trait. She’s an honest and loyal person, who requires those traits from a friend or a mate. She is pretty straight forward about what she wants. She knows her strengths and weaknesses and wants a man who will compliment those respectively. She is aware that nobody is perfect. She wants an optimistic mate who can see the good in a world of imperfections.

She is one of four daughters (3 of whom are now happily married). She loves her family and loves children. She particularly adores her nieces and nephews. Anyone who has dysfunctional relationships with their immediate family members would not be compatible with her. Her parents (my in laws) are pleasant and are generally pretty quiet and mellow. I’ve had a few social drinks with her family and they are a joy to be around. Furthermore, the woman can cook too! No man can deny that in today’s day and age a woman who can cook is not only a major plus, but a rare find.

Like her twin sister, Titiksha spent the first 13 years of her life in India and the rest in New Jersey. Also like her sister, this gives her a slight accent, which people (myself included) find simply adorable. More importantly, this gives her an understanding and appreciation of conservative and liberal views that many claim to possess, but few actually do.

Titiksha is seeking an educated mate who has respect for women. A family oriented man with integrity that she can trust and have stimulating conversation with would be ideal. Furthermore, a man who can make her laugh would earn major cool points =). She wants someone who, like herself, values the Hindu religion and Indian culture. However, she is open to someone who, like herself, has assimilated somewhat to American culture as well. Furthermore she doesn’t think it’s shallow to believe that physical attraction is a required for a healthy marriage.

Unlike a large percentage of people on shaadi. com, she’s not at all interested in casual dating or a relationship. If this is your motive, please don’t contact her. She believes that the Western and Eastern approaches to marriage both have their strengths and weaknesses. However, she feels that mixing the two approaches rarely brings favorable results. She wants to decide on a mate based on the initial spark and her gut instinct. She doesn’t even want to know (right away at least) about a man’s past, as that could negatively impact an otherwise logical decision. She wants a man who wants the same things out of life that she does. She would like to hear from those who are serious in finding a life partner soon, as opposed to those who want to prolong a decision for a year or more.

In conclusion, a man would have to be downright foolish to not consider Titiksha as a serious and eligible marriage candidate. As the husband of her twin sister, I can say she is a great a person and a rare find. By the way, I assure you that she doesn’t talk like I write =).

Jay

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